When you got to just relax, and settle down. Actually, there is no such thing called settle down. When you don’t have a busy life to deal with, you will be engaged in something else. Sometimes, differences are not possible to eliminate and sharpen into harmony, so, you gotta learned to accommodate.
Sometimes, when you want one thing too much, it’s possible not able to accomplish in a moment. Really, what you really should do is working for it on your own. On a maybe tough way, but with all kinds of pleasure, instead of trying to please anyone to get it. But the tough thing is, you may have to be the person you don’t want to be once in a while in order to achieve some kind of goal in your life.
Experience, getting tougher!